What is anal sex?
Anal sex is the sexual activity in which one user can stimulate their partners anal with the help of Indian anal toys, penis, fingers or tongue.
According to Wikipedia –
Anal sex or anal intercourse is generally the insertion and thrusting of the erect penis into a person's anus, or anus and rectum, for sexual pleasure. For insertion, user can also prefer their fingers, Indian anal sex toys etc.
Is it popular in India?
Generally, anal sex is not so popular in Indian. There are only a few people in Indian who loves to involve in anal sex. But most of the user does not like to penetrate the anal.
Some of the Indian men think that if they involved in the anal sex then they might become gay. But this is only the misconception.
Is pain during anal sex is normal?
Most of the users think that anal sex is painful so they don’t want to involve in it. But for lots of people, anal sex is pleasurable and also the part of their sexual life.
Of course, for the first time, anal sex is a little painful but not every time. While having the anal sex most of you rushed and make it uncomfortable so it becomes painful.
But anal is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body. I know it’s difficult to believe but anal is indeed more sensitive as compared to the vagina. So, if you stimulate the anal properly with some technique then it definitely provides you the pleasant pleasure.
How to have anal sex: Everything you want to know about it?
To experience the anal orgasm or to experience the anal pleasure you have to do the anal sex with some technique. You should follow every step to have better anal sex. This is the only way to gain pleasure during anal sex.
Do some preparation
Once you decide to have anal sex then you have to do some preparation. Without this preparation, it becomes little difficult to experience the pleasant pleasure during the anal sex. So, don’t try to skip these steps.
Feel free to clean your anal
At the very first, you should clean your anal. To clean the anal you can use the anal douches and enema. With the help of anal douches and enema, you can easily clean your anal with any difficulty. It is the easiest way to clean the anal.
Prepare anal sex toys
Before involving in the anal sex, you should also prepare your anal sex toys. You can select any of the Indian anal sex toys according to your choice. But be careful while selecting the anal sex toys.
For example – If you are involving in the anal sex for the first time then you should select the small size butt plug which you can easily fix in your finger. If you have little experience then you can prefer the anal dildo or anal beads. An expert user can select any types of anal toys which they like most.
Prepare anal sex lube
While having anal sex, don’t forget about the anal lube. Like the vagina, anal does not produce its own lubricant. So, preparing a good quality anal lube is very important.
Generally, the anal lubricant is thicker as compared to any other lube so it worked for a long time and you don’t have to reapply it again and again like any other ordinary lube.
While choosing the anal lube, also check the material of your toy. If your anal toys are made with the silicone material then you should avoid using the silicone lube. In this case, it is better to use the water-based lube.
So, prepare the best anal lube which is compatible with your Indian anal toys material.
Try to stimulate your anal by yourself
Before involving in the anal sex with your partner spend some time along to stimulate your anal by yourself. You can stimulate your anal with your fingers or anal sex toys.
Going straight from not having anything to the fully erect penis definitely hurts you. So, try to stimulate your anal with your fingers or tiny anal toys until you get comfortable. It helps you a lot to experience a pleasant feeling.
Move to the next step
Now it’s time to move to the next step. Here, you can learn how to have anal sex for better pleasure. Follow these steps only at the time when you prepared all the necessary things and comfortable.
Get into the mood
After completing all the necessary preparation, the most important things are to get really turned on. Try to make yourself and your partner relax. Unless or until you and your partner does not get relax, you cannot enjoy the anal sex.
To get into the mood, you can do anything which makes you feel happy. You can read an erotic book, watch porn etc.
Use anal sex lubricant
Once you get excited then apply the anal lube. You should apply the anal lube near the anal and also on the surface of your Indian anal sex toys.
If you want to insert the penis then apply the anal lube on the penis also. It helps to reduce friction and make the surface slippery. It also provides you the smooth insertion feeling.
let's caress enough and take it in and out slowly
Once you apply the sex lube then spend some time while caressing the anal. After spending some time while caressing the anal try to insert the anal sex toys or penis into the anal.
First, insert little length of the toy or penis then stop and wait. Once your muscles have relaxed then again continue this thing little by little until you feel comfortable with the whole things.
Select the most comfortable sex position
While doing the anal sex, you should think about yourself and your partner too. So, select the sex position in which you both feel comfortable.
Most of the expert suggest starting anal sex with the spooning sex position or doggy style sex positions. These two are the easiest sex position for anal sex.
Add more lube to stay slippery
During the anal sex, if you feel that your anal gets dry then apply more lube to make it slippery. Until your anal is slippery you will not feel the pleasure. At the time, when your anal get dry apply the lube to experience the pleasure feeling.
What to keep in mind
While having anal sex, you have to keep some points in your mind.
Most of the couple enjoy anal sex because there is no risk of getting pregnant. And it is completely true if ejaculation happens in your anal.
But in case, if some ejaculation gets into the vagina then there is a risk of pregnancy.
Sexually transmitted Infection
The major risk of having anal sex is the transmission of STIs. As you know that anal is not self-lubricated so there is more chance to get tiny tears during the sex which let bacteria into your body more easily.
So, the risk of catching STIs infection is higher with anal sex.
Another thing which you should keep in your mind is that vagina infection is also possible. Vagina has lots of bacteria living in it. In case, if anal bacteria migrate into the vagina then it can result in urinary tract an infection which is painful and unpleasant.
If you don’t want to share the bacteria then you ought to clean toys, gingers or even penis before moving to the vagina sex from anal sex.